List of sexual slurs
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The following is a list of sexual slurs that are, or have been, used to refer to members of a given sexual minority, gender, sex, or sexual orientation in a derogatory or pejorative manner. Each term is listed, followed by its definition, usage, and origin. Not all terms on the list are considered equally offensive.
Many of these terms are used more widely than would be imagined based on their "definition"; for example, gay may be used as a term of disparagement to refer to any person or thing the speaker thinks is stupid. The key here is that the person using the slur intends to harm the person so labeled by associating them with a sexual minority. The motivation for using a sexual slur is often sexism and/or bias against a sexual orientation.
As seen above with the term gay, words which at one point had predominantly positive connotations and came from the minority groups themselves are often eventually used against them as slurs. It is also not uncommon for members of minority groups to appropriate an originally disparaging term and use it for themselves, as an act of self-assertion. However, they may be extremely offended if it is used by members of the majority group. The word nigger is an example. Queer, on the other hand, has been re-claimed by many members of sexual minorities and is the term by which these individuals would prefer to be called, as long as it is in a respectful manner.
Some of the slurs used against women are also used against men, but with the addition of the qualifier male. So slut becomes male slut, and whore becomes male whore. These uses are problematic because they imply that being a woman is a normal characteristic of a slut or a whore, and thus when a man is a slut or whore it must be specified. Similarly, by common usage being a man is the implicit state of a prick and a female prick requires the specifier. See the article Non-sexist language for a discussion of related issues.
University of New England researcher David Plummer argues that the following anti-gay terms that often connotate effeminate behaviour are also used when young boys betray "peer group solidarity" or fail to, "measure up to 'hegemonic' boys' standards rather than necessarily being 'feminine'." Thus, he argues, "homophobia has its early roots in boyhood 'otherness'—specifically in being different from the collectively authorized expectations of male peers." [1] (PDF file)
See also: List of ethnic slurs
See also: List of pejorative political slogans
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- abomination - (US) the Old Testament term used for disgust felt towards homosexuals and homosexuality, considered highly pejorative in that sense
- AC/DC - (North America) bisexual; not named after the rock band but used in the "goes both ways" sense (much like the French "marcher à voile et à vapeur": to go by sail and by steam)
- African queen - (UK) black gay male, Named after the 1951 film The African Queen.
- Alexander Graham - (North America) an anonymous gay encounter, based on the name of the inventor of the telephone Alexander Graham Bell; eg. "I'm going for an Alexander"
- anal assassin - (North America) gay male, refers to anal sex
- anal astronaut - (North America) gay male, refers to anal sex
- anal commander - (Australia) gay male, refers to anal sex
- anal maniac - (North America) gay male, refers to anal sex
- anal samurai - (North America) gay male, refers to anal sex, one who "stabs dat ass" in such a manner that it constitutes samurai status.
- Anally Injected Death Sentence (AIDS) - (UK) highly pejorative term for HIV positive gay men
- Another Infected Dick Sucker (AIDS) - (North America) as above
- Antiman - (Anglophone Caribbean) black term for homosexuals
- armbreaker - (UK) a person that masturbates frequently and/or violently, OR a particularly violent or lengthy period of masturbation
- armpit braider - (North America) militant feminist
- arschgeiger - (German) a gay male. Loosely, "ass strummer"
- ass assassin - (North America) a gay male that loves anal sex
- ass bandit - (North America) gay male, refers to anal sex
- ass diver - (North America) gay male, see "ass spelunker"
- ass goblin (gobblin') - (North America) gay male
- ass jockey - (North America) gay male, refers to anal sex
- ass monkey - (North America) gay male, refers to anal sex
- ass pirate - (North America) gay male, refers to anal sex
- ass rammer - (North America) gay male, refers to anal sex
- ass spelunker - (North America) gay male, one who penetrates deeply
- ass viking - (North America) gay male
- asshole bender - (North America) gay male, refers to anal sex
- Astro-Glider - (North America) gay male, refers to a lubricant used in anal sex
- Aunt Esther - (US) hatchet faced old battleaxe (from character portrayed by LaWanda Page on Sanford & Son)
- auntie - (UK Commonwealth & US) old flamboyant queen (based on Auntie Mame - despite her being an actual woman)
- avaleuse - (Francophone countries/territories) a female cocksucker
- avaleur - (Francophone countries/territories) a male cocksucker
B
- bachelor boy - (UK Commonwealth) see "confirmed bachelor"
- back door bandit - (North America) gay male, refers to anal sex
- back door butcher - (UK) delivers meat to the tradesman's entrance
- bag - (US) old woman.
- bald eagle - (North America) refers to either shaven or prepubescent female genitalia; see "hunting bald eagle"
- ballbreaker / ballbuster - (North America) domineering female
- banty boy / bantam - (UK) an emasculated male, or a homosexual
- bastard - (UK Commonwealth & US) person born out of wedlock or "illegitimately"; jerk, or the male equivalent of bitch despite its common use to describe women
- battle axe - (North America) a very masculine, domineering woman.
- batty boy - (Jamaican and UK) gay male
- Bean Queen - (US) Mexican homosexual, or a gay man that likes Mexicans
- be-atch - (North America) Hip Hop rendition of Bitch
- bender - (North America) gay male - see asshole bender
- bent - (UK) opposite of straight, gay
- biddy - (US) old woman (literally, hen).
- bimbo - (North America) a dim-witted promiscuous female
- bird - (UK Commonwealth) a sexually objectified female
- Biscuit Eater - (US) see "salad tosser", the term "Son of a Biscuit Eater" also used
- a bit lavender - (US) a man suspected of being gay
- bitch - (North America & UK Commonwealth) female dog; overly aggressive and spiteful female; woman who does not conform to society's behavioral, sexual, and clothing norms; a person (usually male) who receives anal sex (originated as prison slang); a man who is dominated in a relationship by another
- Bog Queen - (UK) a gay male that seeks sex in public toilets
- bone smuggler - (North America) gay male, refers to anal sex
- booty bandit - (North America) gay male, refers to anal sex
- boqueteiro(a) - (Brazil) cocksucker
- bøsse - (Danish) pejorative word for a gay male. Akin to "faggot"
- bottom - (North America) submissive partner
- bowwow - (US) unattractive female (variant of dog)
- box lunch - (North America) a lesbian; a female's genitals
- breeder - (North America, UK) straight person, generally used only by gay people and people in favor of birth control
- broad - (North America) woman, typically an outspoken one
- brochista - (Portugal) cocksucker
- Bronco/Bronk - (US) see "power bottom"
- Bronco Buster/Bronk Buster - (US) gay male who pitches vigorously
- Brown pipe engineer - (UK) one who enters via the back passage
- Brown noser - (North America) a gay male who performs analingus, also an employee who tries to gain favor with the boss
- bubble biter - (North America) gay male, refers to analingus
- Buccaneer - (North America) a homosexual male
- bufu - (US) a male homosexual - a contraction of "buttfucker", used by Moon Unit Zappa in the 1980's novelty song Valley Girl
- bugger /buggerer - (UK Commonwealth) gay male, refers to anal sex
- bull - (US) dominant aggressive lesbian
- bulldagger - (?) lesbian, variant of bulldyke
- bulldog - (US) a particularly unattractive lesbian
- bulldyke - (North America) lesbian (esp. masculine), variant of dyke, possible variant of bedecked → bediked → bulldyke
- bum shoveller - (UK) gay male, refers to anal sex
- bumhole explorer - (UK) gay male, refers to anal sex
- bumhole surfer - (UK) gay male, refers to anal sex
- bummer - (UK) gay male, refers to anal sex
- bunny - (North America) a sexually objectified female
- bunty boy - (UK) gay male
- bush hog - (North America) lesbian, refers to cunnilingus
- butch - (North America) masculine female; or female who has the traditional "masculine" role in a lesbian relationship
- buttered both sides - (UK) bisexual (adjective)
- butthole explorer - (North America) gay male, refers to anal sex
- butthole surfer - (North America) gay male, refers to anal sex, not to be confused with a rock group.
- butt bandit - (North America) gay male, refers to anal sex
- butt banger - (North America) gay male, refers to anal sex
- butt buddies - (North America) gay male sexual partners, refers to anal sex
- butt cowboy - (North America) gay male, refers to anal sex
- Butterscotch Stallion - (North America) a straight male who enjoys licking women's asses, also a self acknowledged nickname for actor Owen Wilson
- butt fucker - (North America) gay male, refers to anal sex
- butt pirate - (North America) gay male, refers to anal sex
- butt plunger - (North America) gay male, refers to anal sex
- butt puppet - (North America) gay male, refers to the woman in the relationship
- butty - (North America) gay male sexual partner, refers to anal sex
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- cacorro - (Colombia) dominant gay male in intercourse.
- cake boy - (U.S.) a gay man
- cake eater - (North America) gay male, refers to analingus
- carpet muncher - (North America) lesbian, refers to oral sex
- castrato - (UK & US) a castrated or otherwise emasculated young male
- catcher - (North America) receiver of anal intercourse - usually gay
- catamite - (UK & US) used as a slur since the early 19th century for a male who receives anal intercourse
- Cecil or Sesel - (North America) a weak, ineffectual, unattractive young gay male
- Charlie Sierra - (US Military) a cocksucker - derived from radio alphabet for CS (term usually used figuratively like "brown-noser", but sometimes used literally as a term for homosexuals)
- Chester - (North America) person suspected of being a molester - from the cartoon character from Hustler Magazine
- chick - (North America) a sexually objectified female
- chicken - (North America & UK) a (postpubescent) young man (usually one found attractive by gay men at least a few years older)
- chickenhawk - (North America & UK) a gay man who has a sexual preference for postpubescent young men (mid-teens to early-20s, generally)
- chick with dick - (North America) a preoperative transwoman
- chilito - (Southwest US & Mexico) Spanish for small cock, sometimes directed at asians - literally "small chile pepper" (chile pepper being euphemism for penis)
- Chimp-Pansy - (US) effeminate young black male
- chocolate chimney sweep - (UK) gay male who gives anal sex
- chocolate starfish invader - North America) gay male, refers to anal sex
- chocoridder - (Dutch) gay male, refers to anal sex (lit. chocolate knight, or horse rider)
- chowder chugger - (North America) gay male, refers to oral sex
- chulo - (Southwest US & Mexico) Spanish for pretty or effeminate young male, see "queer bait"
- chupapene - (Southwest US & Mexico) Spanish for cocksucker
- chutney ferret - (UK) gay male partial to performing rimjobs
- circle jerker - (North America) a male that participates in a circle jerk
- closet case - (North America) a closeted homosexual, one who keeps their sexuality secret
- clutch purse (UK) gay male
- cock - (North America) insensitive male
- cock block / cunt block / "c" block - (North America) A third party who stops a couple from engaging in sex acts
- cock faggot - (Australia) gay male who enjoys giving oral sex
- cock goblin - (North America) gay male
- cock jockey - (North America) gay male
- cock mongrel - (North America) refers to a male with a malformed or odd penis.
- cock smoker - (North America) gay male, refers to oral sex
- cock teaser - (North America) a female that gives the false impression that sex is imminent or likely
- cocksucker - (North America) gay male, refers to oral sex (usage has also evolved to a non-sexual context meaing "suck up" or "brown noser")
- cocoa puff - (North America) gay black male
- colon bomber - (North America) gay male, refers to anal sex
- confirmed bachelor - (North America) euphemism for male homosexual
- corn-holer - (North America) gay male, refers to anal sex
- Cow - (UK Commonwealth) an unflattering term for a woman
- Cowboy Coitus - (North America) rough gay sex, also a pun on "Cowboy Curtis" from Pee Wee's Playhouse.
- comare -(Italy & Italian-American) see: goumada.
- crack whore or crack ho - (North America) the lowest form of junkie prostitute
- crap hole cosmonaut - (UK) gay male
- crap trap cavalier - (North America) gay male
- cream puff - (North America) effeminate gay male
- crewcut - (North America) a masculine female, or female wearing a crewcut hairstyle
- crotch pheasant - (North America) a promiscuous female (popularized by Stewie of Family Guy)
- cum dumpster - (North America) a promiscuous female.
- cum bucket - (UK) a promiscuous female.
- cumguzzler - (North America) one who performs oral sex on a man and subsequently swallows the ejaculate (cum).
- cunning linguist - (North America) lesbian, a humorous malaprop for cunnilingus. Also: one who is particularly experienced at performing cunnilingus.
- cunt - (North America & UK Commonwealth) literally vulva - very strong term of abuse, disliked person (widely used in the UK, in North America mainly restricted to females) sometimes euphemized to "C word"
- cupcake - (North America) a gay or effeminate male - see "fairy cake"
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- dagger - (?) lesbian, variant of dyke
- dairy queen - (US) a preoperative transsexual woman with large breasts, see "chick with dick" (after the name of the fast food restaurant)
- dandan(s) - (US) A lesbian incapable of having hot sex
- degenerate - (North America) a person who does not comply with sexual norms & mores
- deviate or deviant - (North America) gay male or lesbian
- dick - (North America) penis, insensitive male
- dickbag - (North America) scrotum, insensitive/oblivious male - just hanging around, completely ignoring a problem
- dickhead - (North America) penis head, insensitive male or (Australia) stupid person, an idiot
- dickless - (North America) male who lacks fortitude or manly traits.
- diesel dike - (North America) Butch femminists/lesbians
- dike - (UK Commonwealth & US) a common misspelling of "dyke"
- dingleberry digger (Australia) gay male, dingleberry refers to the lumps of crap that stick to anal hair
- dirt track rider - (Australia) gay male, refers to anal sex
- dog - (US) unattractive female
- dolly - (US & UK Commonwealth) a prostitute, usually young and/or inexperienced (term used as early as 18th-century, perhaps earlier)
- double adapter - (Australia) a bisexual
- double bagger - (US) very unattractive female
- douche / douche bag - (US) a malicious or ill-intentioned person
- douchefag - (US) a malicious or ill-intentioned person/tool who is homosexual
- doughnut puncher - (North America) gay male
- Down Low - (US) see "on the down low"
- duffer - (US) an inexperienced or clumsy male homosexual - based on the alusion to golfers that have difficulties putting at the hole
- Dung puncher - (New Zealand) A male homosexual
- dyke - (North America) lesbian, many possible origins: may come from "dyked out" or getting dressed up; possibly from hermaphrodite → maphrodite → maphrodike or from Boudicca, a Celtic queen of the Iceni tribe
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- Egg Roll Dick - (North America) an Asian Male, because the stereotypical uncircumcised asian penis looks like a small egg roll
- Eleanor - (US) a lesbian - based on the claim that Eleanor Roosevelt was secretly a lesbian
- Essex girl - (UK) A woman from the British county of Essex known for her strong estuary accent, flamboyant personality and liberated sexuality
- Eunuch - (UK & US) an emasculated male
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- fag - (North America) gay male, derived from the term "Fag Boy" for servant boys in British boarding schools. Etymology in this case refers to "fagged" as tired from their servitude, a sense no longer widely used in Britain. In UK, fag nearly always referes to a cigarette from association of a faggot as a burning brand of wood (taking a fag break, packet of fags, dropping fag ash, fag smoke) - especially for working class. See Faggot.
- fag basher - (North America) someone who attacks homosexuals and/or homosexuality, whether verbally or physically
- fagela - (Jews) term for gay male. This word is not derived from Hebrew or Yiddish, it was just an adaptation of the term "fag."
- fag hag - (North America) a heterosexual woman who prefers the company of male homosexuals
- fag trap - (North America) a heterosexual person who acts in a manner to attract homosexuals; see "queer bait"
- faggot - (North America) a gay male
- fagnostic - (North America) a gay person in denial about their sexuality. Contrived from the words fag and agnostic.
- fairy - (North America) effeminate and/or gay male
- fairy cake - (U.K. Commonwealth) an effeminate and/or gay male
- family - (North America) homosexual community
- fanny - (US) buttocks or (UK) vagina, or insensitive male
- fegele - (pseudo-Yiddish) gay male, (believed by many to be a Yiddish word, it is actually a modification of the English word "fag")
- felcher - (North America) a gay male that laps or sucks semen from the anus after anal intercourse
- feminazi - (US) a radical militant feminist, popularized by Rush Limbaugh
- feminista - (US) similar to feminazi, pronounced like Sandinista
- femme - (North America) female who has the traditional "feminine" role in a lesbian relationship; a woman or man with a more or less traditionally feminine, effeminate, or non-masculine gender presentation
- fencesitter - (UK Commonwealth & US) bisexual.
- ferndocker - (North American) a person who licks bicycle seats, preferably soon after use
- Fire Islander - (Northeast US) a gay male, based on the name of a popular gay vacation destination
- fish - (North America) a woman, or sex with a woman (dated gay slang) - possibly also derived from the feminist quote "a woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle"
- fish/fresh fish - (North America) gay prison slang for new prisoners (possible new sexual partners)
- fishbucket - (North America) a woman's vagina
- fish face - (North America) a lesbian
- fish and finger pie - (UK Commonwealth & US) a lesbian (from Penny Lane, a Beatles song)
- fish monger - (UK) a pimp
- flamer - (North America) effeminate, flamboyant gay male
- flame thrower - (North America) extremely flamboyant gay male; can also refer to a bouncer at a gay bar
- FNC - (US) spoken abbreviation of "effin c" / "fuckin' cunt", a severe term of derision towards females
- freckle puncher - (California & AUS) a male homosexual presumed to engage in anal intercourse - term used by actor James Woods on the Howard Stern Show in September 2005.
- Frenchman - (North America) gay male, origins unknown
- fresh meat - (North America) gay prison slang for new prisoners (possible new sexual partners)
- friend of Dorothy - (North America) gay male, most likely originates with a stereotypical gay affinity for Judy Garland
- fruit - (North America) effeminate and/or gay male
- fruit fly - (?) see "fag hag."
- fuck-buddy / f buddy - (North America) a sex partner with whom one does not have a romantic relationship or other ties, often on the side while in a "true" relationship
- fudge packer - (North America) gay male, refers to anal sex; originated as prison slang
- Fudge nudger - (UK) - as fudge packer
- funny - (North America & UK) a euphemism for "homosexual": that is, "funny", but not "ha ha funny".
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- Gaandu - (India) - actually means eunuch. Commonly used to mean kiss-ass, coward, slimy.
- gahba - (Arabic) slut / whore
- galboy - (North America) gay male who has the "feminine" role in a relationship
- Game / on the game - (UK) a prostitute
- Gameboy / Game Boy - (UK) a young gay male prostitute, possibly below age of consent (16)
- gash - (North America) a variant of cunt literally meaning vulva - very strong term of abuse for a disliked woman
- gash gobbler - (North America) lesbian, refers to cunnilingus
- gawwad - (UK/US Military) literally a pimp, but more often a term for a homosexual (historically, Arabs employ/employed homosexuals or eunuchs to mind their consorts), frequently mispronounced "Gaywad" (from exposure to Arabic language)
- gay - (North America) male homosexual; weak, stupid, or bad, this usage implies that gay people or being gay is weak, stupid, or generally bad; however, gay is also the preferred synonym for homosexual or other terms when used respectfully.
- Gay is also often used by very young children (as on a playground) to describe any sort of sexual act by their peers, from kissing on up, even if performed by two children of opposite sex. "Did you see Billy kissing Suzie?" "Yeah; that's so gay." This usage seems to become less common at approximately the age at which children discover the common meaning; until then, it's merely a mindless epithet.
- Gay American - (US) coined in 2004 by the disgraced governor of New Jersey
- Gaydar - (International) the ability to non-verbally recognize homosexuals
- Gay or Just English? - (US) the perceived sexual ambiguity of English males
- Gay Wad - (Southern US) an effeminate or homosexual male (no etymological link to gawwad)
- gelding - (UK & North America) a castrated or otherwise emasculated male (commonly used to refer to henpecked husbands)
- gigolo - (International) a male that services rich hetero women, sometimes with a connotation of prostitution, male equalvalient of escort or golddigger
- gimp - (North America) a gay male sadomasochistic playmate, usually submissive - as noted in the film Pulp Fiction
- ginger - (UK) gay male, "Ginger beer" = "Queer" in rhyming slang
- ginger pubes - (UK & Eire) (literally red public hair) term for a redhead/rousse
- girl - (US & UK) effeminate male, as in "don't be a girl"; or a gay male who has the "feminine" role in a relationship
- girlie-man - (North America) a weak or effeminate male, first popularized by Hans & Franz on Saturday Night Live. Used in 2004 by Schwarzenegger in his gubernatorial campaign to describe his opponents as "economic girlie-men."
- gold-digger, golddigger - (International) a woman who is romantically involved with someone with the intention of finanically profitting from it
- Gomer Pyle - (USMC) term for a gay male in the Marine Corps
- goo gobbler - (North America) gay male
- goober gobbler - (US) gay male
- good with colours - (UK) Indicative of a gay male. Based upon the stereotypes that gay males make good interior designers, fashion gurus, etc.
- goumada - (US, Italian-American) (often pronounced as "goo-ma") a mistress or kept woman, the implication being someone with whom you would regularly engage in sexual acts that were too dirty to do with your wife. Also comare. Originated as Mafia slang.
- gump - (US prisons) gay male
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- Hag - (UK Commonwealth & US) ugly female, old female, or old & ugly female
- Hag-fag - (North America) a male homosexual who prefers the company of heterosexuals, especially females, to that of gay men
- Hagfish - (North America) a particularly vile form of "hag"
- Haley - (US) dirty pirate hooker
- half rice, half chips - (UK) bisexual
- harlot - (UK Commonwealth & US) prostitute (no longer in wide usage)
- Heblew - (US) juvenile term for a jewish homosexual
- Hermaphrodite - (UK Commonwealth & US) a person, animal or plant with both male and female sex organs or characteristics; a word that is very disliked by intersexuals and the intersexual community. Also considered offensive when applied to transsexuals.
- he-she - (US & UK) Fetish term similar to chicks with dicks
- het' / het's - (North America) contemptuous term for heterosexuals - contraction of hetero
- hetero - (UK Commonwealth & US) refers to a "straight" person; that is, a male who is attracted to females or vice versa.
- heterophobe - (North America) literally one who fears heterosexuals and heterosexual acts.
- hijo de puta - (Latin America) literally, "son of a whore"
- himbo - (North America) a dim-witted promiscuous male (compare to "bimbo")
- ho' - (North America) shortening of whore: sex worker; promiscuous woman; woman who does not conform to societies behavioural, sexual, and clothing norms
- hom - (Francophone countries & territories) gay male (short for "homo")
- homme - (Francophone countries & territories) a masculine or lesbian female
- homo - (North America) gay male, see homosexual
- homophobe - (US) literally one who fears homosexuals, however usually used as a slur against persons/parties who don't advocate gay marriage, or gays in the military, etc.
- homosexual - (UK Commonwealth & US) most often gay male, sometimes lesbian; invented in 1869. Many dislike its use to describe people.
- hoochie - (US) noun or adjective depending on usage, is a street slang sexual slur meaning a scantly dressed, sexually promiscuous young woman. When used as an adjective, for example, hoochie mama, the meaning becomes more offensive implying a young mother of bastard children. Sometimes hoochie mama is used as an adjective altogether; for example, hoochie mama skirt suggests the clothing is too revealing.
- Hoover - (UK) someone who enjoys performing fellatio - from the British term for vacuum cleaner
- Hueco - (Central America) Derogatory term refering to homosexuals or effeminate males.
- huwarr - (NYC & locality, esp. Brooklyn) a whore, pronunciation possibly a survival of "hoer" from the Dutch period (many Dutch derived pronunciations survive in NYC, especially Brooklyn)
- Humbert / Humbert Humbert - (UK & US) a man who is specifically attracted to pubescent girls - from the principal character in Lolita
- hunting bald eagle - (North America) the act of seeking out pre-pubescent girls for sexual pleasure
- Hustler - (North America) Gay male prostitute
- hussy - (UK Commonwealth & US) a sexually promiscuous female
- Hyacinth - (UK) an extremely domineering and emasculating wife/woman. After the main character, Hyacinth Bucket of the British Sitcom "Keeping Up Appearances."
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- intersexual - (UK Commonwealth & US) sometimes considered offensive when applied to transexuals
- Intestinal Tourist - (North America) a male homosexual presumed to engage in anal intercourse - term used by actor James Woods on the Howard Stern Show in September 2005.
- Irish curse - (North America) sexual slur for being afflicted with a small penis; also unrelated as an ethnic slur for alcoholism
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- jailbait - (North America) female too young for legal sexual relations
- Jammy feminist - (?) lesbian
- Jezebel - (UK Commonwealth & US) a sexually promiscuous female, often one who is blamed for seducing an innocent male
- Jizz Jockey - (North America) a male sex worker (porn or prostitution) (hetero or homo)
- Jobby Jabber - (Scotland) gay male, literally "shit poker"
- John - (International) a man who pays for sex
- Joto - (Mexico) gay male, also used as prison slang
- Julie Andrews - (North America) see Mary Poppins
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- Kesser Vater - (German) pejorative term for a lesbian. Loosely meaning "pert Father".
- Klinger - (US) a heterosexual transvestite, after the character from the American novel, film and sitcom, M*A*S*H
- Kiddie Fiddler / Diddler - (UK) a pedophile
- King of Poppers - (US) a male that uses "poppers" (amyl nitrate) to relax the sphincters of his partners
- Kipperlips - (UK) see "muffdiver"
- Knob gobbler - (North America) gay male, refers to fellatio
- Knob jockey - (UK) gay male, refers to anal sex
- Kosher Ghost - (Northeast US) a Hassidic or Orthodox Jew - based on the erroneous belief that Orthodox Jews have sexual intercourse through a hole in a sheet
- Kosher Klansman - (Northeast US) a Hassidic or Orthodox Jew - see Kosher Ghost
- kurve - (Yiddish) prostitute
- K-Y Kommando - (North America) gay male, refers to a lubricant used in anal sex
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- Ladies - (US) term used by sports coaches and sergeants to imply that their male athletes or male troops are behaving like women, not being masculine, or not giving 100%
- Ladyboy - (UK & Thailand) a feminine Asian preoperative transsexual male
- Lavender with Rage - (?) gay male
- Lebanese, Lebanon, "Lebanese Thespian" - (UK) a humorous malaprop for lesbian
- Left Handed Rock Thrower - (AUS) A camp, gay male in reference to wrist flick hand gesture.
- Legal Chicken - (UK Commonwealth & US) a young male homosexual at/over the age of consent
- leg licker - (UK & US) lesbian
- lemon - (?) lesbian
- lesbo - (North America) lesbian
- 'lester - (North America) term for a suspected molester
- lez - (North America) lesbian
- lezzer - (North America) lesbian
- Liberace Gay - (US) extremely flamboyant homo male, coined by Eric Cartman (Trey Parker) of South Park, after the famous gay pianist.
- librarian - (?) lesbian
- light in the loafers - (US) effeminate and/or gay male
- lilla - (Estonian) a male homosexual
- limp wrist - (UK & North America) effeminate gay male
- Limp-wrist-long-nails - (UK & North America) a grossly effeminate male, usually homosexual and the catcher, often lacking in physical strength and horse sense
- Lipstick lesbian - (North America) a lesbian who does not have the appearance of the stereotypical butch lesbian. Rather, Lipstick Lesbians are labelled as such because their appearance typically is one that heterosexual males would find attractive.
- Liquor license - (North America) lesbian. The word makes use of "liquor" as a pun for "lick her."
- lirva - (Estonian) a promiscuous woman. Literally "slut"
- Lost Boys - (North America) victims/prospective victims of a male pedophile
- lot lizard - (North America) truck stop prostitute that services truckers in their truck cabs
- love that dare not speak its name - (UK) Victorian Era term for homosexuality and homosexuals
- lucky charms - (US) an Irish homosexual, coined by Eddie Murphy in the early 1980s, after the brand of cereal which uses a leprechaun as its mascot.
- Lucky Pierre - (North America) a gay male that enjoys simultaneously penetrating and being penetrated in threesomes
M
- macho like Morrissey - (UK & Eire) publicly maintaining neutral sexuality or heterosexuality, but suspected of homosexuality, refers to Morrissey; see also "fagnostic"
- mama's boy - (North America) effeminate male who is controlled by his mother or has a good relationship with her
- mamhoon - (UK/US Military) a homosexual male, frequently mispronounced "manhoon" (from exposure to Arabic language)
- man - (North America) masculine female; or lesbian female who has the "masculine" role in a lesbian relationship. Also a masculine homosexual who takes the male role (as pitcher) in a homosexual sex act
- manflora - (Northern Mexico, Southwestern U.S.) a lesbian
- Mango - (North America) an extremely flamboyant effeminate homosexual male - from the character created by Chris Kattan for Saturday Night Live
- mano caida - (Mexico) gay male (Spanish for "fallen hand")
- maricón - (Spain, Latin America & US) Spanish slur for male homosexual, also in common usage in U.S.
- marimacha - (Mexico) a butch lesbian
- mariposa - (Cuba) Spanish slur for male homosexual, literally "butterfly"
- Marmite Miner - (UK Commonwealth) a male homosexual, marmite (an edible yeast spread) resembles feces
- Mary - (UK Commonwealth & US) fem male homosexual
- Mary Poppins - (North America) flamboyant fem male homosexual
- may tag - (UK) sex with a gay male (prison slang)
- Merry Andrew - (US) antebellum term describing a gay male
- metro (metrosexual) - A heterosexual male who adopts the style, appearence and sometimes mannerisms of a homosexual (see queer bait)
- MILF - (US) acronym for Mother I'd Like to Fuck, a particularly attractive middle aged woman, as noted in the film "American Pie"
- mimbo - (North America) a male bimbo
- mince - (UK) to behave effeminately or as an effeminate gay male
- minge muncher - (UK) A lesbian (minge meaning vagina), (New Zealand) an enthusiast for cunnilingus (both genders)
- missy/missie - (North America) submissive male homosexual
- Mister Humphries - (UK) an extremely flamboyant mincing gay man. After the character from the British sitcom "Are You Being Served?"
- 'Mo - (US) contracted form of the word Homo
- moffie - (South Africa) male homosexual
- Moll - (UK & US) 18th & 19th-century - prostitute (ie. Moll Flanders) / 20th-century - mistress (ie. gangster's moll)
- mole - (Australia) term for a (usually) suburban female who will sleep with any man
- Molly - (UK & US) prostitute residing in a brothel
- monosexual - (US) a narcissistic person, or a person obsessed with self love/masturbation
- Motherfucker - (US & UK) originally a sexual insult - now essentially stripped of sexual connotations, based on the general taboo against fornicating with one's mother
- Munni imeja - (Estonian) literally, "dick sucker". Refers to both males and females
- mucus fucker - (US Gay Males) heterosexual male; refers to intercourse
- muff diver - (North America) anyone who performs cunnilingus, but usually in reference to a lesbian
- Muscle Mary - (UK) a buff, and frequently butch homosexual male
N
- nailbiter, nailchomper - (?) A very masculine male homosexual who is also the top in a homosexual act; a grossly masculine lesbian
- nafke - (Yiddish) prostitute
- nance - (UK & US) variant of nancy
- nancy - (UK & US) effeminate male, homosexual
- nancy boy - (UK & US) variant of nancy
- necro - (?) short for necrophiliac.
- nellie - (North America) variant of nelly
- nelly - (North America) effeminate gay male
- no name - (Latin America & the Philippines) pejorative term from homosexuals
- nonce - (UK Commonwealth) pedophile
- non-dairy creamer - (US) a woman with large obvious breast implants
- nun & nunnery - (UK) Elizabethan era slang for prostitutes and brothels
- nunita - (Latin America) slang term for a promiscuous female
- Nutte - (German) a promiscuous woman. Akin to "slut".
- nutsack - (US) offensive male. Variant of scrotum
- nympho - (UK Commonwealth & U.S.) short for nymphomaniac
O
- Oklahomo - (US) gay cowboy or a homosexual that favors western attire and/or country & western music (esp. if actually from Oklahoma or North Texas)
- old lady - (US & UK) disrespectful term for mother or wife; also gay prison slang for someones cell mate and/or sexual partner
- on the down low - (US) a closeted homosexual who carries on a superficially heterosexual life, often with a wife and children, but actively practices homosexuality in secret; particularly in the African-American community.
- one of them/those - (US & UK) homosexual
P
- pansy - (US) an effeminate male; used as a synonym for gay
- pantywaist - (US) three meanings depending on context: wimp/sissy/weak male, effeminate straight male, or gay male
- Peanut Butter Lover - (US) someone that enjoys anal intercourse - usually gay
- pederast - (UK Commonwealth) male who has relationships with a pubescent boy; slur when used to describe same sex relationships or sexual acts that are not pederasty
- Pepuvend - (Estonian) a homosexual. Literally, "ass buddy".
- Peter Pan - (US) a male pedophile that seeks Lost Boys
- peter puffer - (US) gay male, refers to oral sex
- pillow biter - (North America) a gay male who receives during intercourse
- pink mafia - (North America) lesbian
- pillow muncher - (North America) a gay male who receives during intercourse
- pink taco maxican - (US) lesbian, refers to cunnilingus
- pipe-fitter - (US-Montana) a gay male
- pipeuse - (Francophone countries/territories) a female cocksucker
- pipuer - (Francophone countries/territories) a male cocksucker
- pitcher - (North America) the giver of anal intercourse - usually gay
- player for the other team - (North America) homosexual (not necessarily a slur)
- player of the pink oboe - (UK) a gay man who performs fellatio - best known through Peter Cook's satire
- playo - (Latin America) term for a homosexual
- Polanski - (1980s US) heterosexual male sexually interested in adolescent females, from Roman Polanski
- pole smoker - (US) a person who performs fellatio
- Poo Stabber - (UK) gay male
- poof - (UK Commonwealth) short for poofter
- poofta - (UK Commonwealth) variant of poofter
- poofter - (UK Commonwealth) effeminate and/or gay male
- pooter poker - (US) gay male, refers to anal sex
- power bottom - (US) enthusiastic gay recipient of anal intercourse (active participant with muscle control); or a non-effeminate, even butch, recipient of anal sex
- prick - (US) penis, insensitive male
- prick-teaser - (US) a woman that gives the false impression that intercourse in imminent
- Princess Margaret - (UK) an extremely flamboyant gay male
- puff - (UK) variant of poofter
- puffer - (North America) male that performs fellatio
- puffta - (UK Commonwealth) variant of poofter
- puffter - (UK Commonwealth) variant of poofter
- punk - (US) in prison slang, punk refers to someone who is treated as a sexual submissive
- pussy/puss - (US) vagina, effeminate and/or gay male. weak male.
- Puss in Boots - (North America) a dominatrix
- pussy whipped - (US) a person in a relationship with a woman in which the woman is dominant
- puta - (Spain, Portugal, Latin America, North America) term for prostitute or other woman of easy virtue
- puttana - (Italian) means whore usually directed towards women, if it's directed at a male it means fag
- putilla - (Spain) young woman of easy virtue
Q
- queefer - (North America) a woman that "queefs" with her vagina, the "queefing" (making a fart sound with trapped air) may be voluntary or involuntary
- queen - (UK Commonwealth & US) effeminate or cross-dressing gay male; also spelt 'quean'
- queer - (US) strange or unusual; a member of any sexual minority; gay; lesbian; a less than masculine male homosexual who takes the female role (i.e. the catcher) in a homosexual sex act. bisexuals or transgender
- queer bait - (US) a heterosexual male mistaken for a homosexual, or an effeminate hetero-male
- queer eye - (US) the perceived flair for style, interior decoration, and fashion possessed by gay men
R
- Rearend Loader - (New Zealand) A male homosexual
- Rectal Wrangler - (North America) gay male (early 21st century)
- Rectum Raider - (UK & North America) gay male
- Rent Boy - (UK Commonwealth) young, passive gay male prostitute [[2]].
- Rimmer - (US) a gay man who licks the asshole
- (UK) an overbearing male twit - based on the character "Rimmer" from "Red Dwarf"
- ring pirate - (North America) gay male
- roll-aids - (North America) HIV positive gay male in wheelchair, highly pejorative
- rough putter - (North America) gay male
- rough trade - (UK Commonwealth & US) extremely masculine gay personna, often with a criminal edge - the biker is a popular motif
- rug doctor - (North America) lesbian, refers to cunnilingus
- rug muncher - (North America) lesbian, refers to cunnilingus
- rump ranger - (North America) gay male, refers to anal sex
S
- salad tosser - (North America) one who performs anilingus
- salami smuggler - (North America) gay male
- San Francisco treat - (North America) gay sex or Rice-a-Roni
- Satyr - (UK Commonwealth & US) a man with an insatiable sexual appetite
- sausage jockey - (North America) gay male
- Schlampe - (German) a promiscuous woman. Akin to "slut".
- Schwuchtel - (German) a pejorative word for a homosexual male.
- Screamer - (North America) an extremely flamboyant male homosexual
- seme - (Japan) dominant gay male in intercourse, refers to anal sex - usage has spread to some parts of US
- semen swallower / sucker - (North America) self explanatory
- Senór Eater - (US) juvenile term for a hispanic homosexual
- sharmuta - (US/UK Military) bitch or whore (from exposure to Arabic language)
- shemale - (UK Commonwealth & US) a pre- or non-operative male-to-female transsexual, see "chick with dick"
- shirt lifter - (North America, UK) gay male
- shitdick -(US-Ohio)Gay male;one who enjoys anal sex
- shit shoveler - (North America) gay male, refers to anal sex
- Shit slot Cosmonaut - (North America) gay male
- shit stabber - (North America) gay male, refers to anal sex
- shrew - (UK Commonwealth & US) wife given to nagging
- silicone sister - (North America) woman with large breast implants - from pop tune "Blinded By The Light" performed by Bruce Springsteen and also by Manfred Mann
- silicone warrior - (North America) a woman who uses her breasts (which may be actual implants or the term may be used to imply same) to manipulate men; a tease
- sissy - (North America) effeminate and/or gay male - derived from the "baby talk" approximation of "sister"
- sissy boy - (North America) variant of sissy
- sister - (UK Commonwealth & US) gay male (prison slang)
- skank - (North America) promiscuous, usually unattractive, most often female
- skin flautist - (North America) male that plays the "skin flute", fellatist
- skippy poofter - (AUS) gay male immigrant, uncommon insult in Australia, skippy is Australian slang for kangaroo and a slur used towards immigrants
- slag - (UK) promiscuous female, usually unattractive (British equivalent of skank)
- Slap and Tickler - One who engages in homosexual activity
- slapper - (UK) a promiscuous female
- Mr. Slave - (North America) a gay male sadomasochistic playmate, usually submissive - as noted in the TV show South Park
- slick leg/legged - (North America) a male that receives simulated intercourse by means of lubricant between his thighs (no actual penetration), the recipient may be willing or coerced (prison slang)
- slut - (UK Commonwealth & US) a promiscuous woman; a woman who does not conform to society's behavioural, sexual, and clothing norms
- smooth - (North America) see Twink
- sodomite - (International) gay male, refers to sodomy
- South Beach - (US East Coast) an esoteric reference to homosexuality, after an area of Miami stereotypically popular with gay men
- South Beach Diet - (US) on the "South Beach Diet" means someone who enjoys ingesting semen, pun on the popular high protein/low carb diet
- sperm bank / walking sperm bank - (North America) a promiscuous heterosexual woman
- sperm recepticle - (US) a promiscuous person - from depositing one's sperm into anothers anus (or vagina). Usually, but not always used in a homosexual context.
- split-tail - (US) Homosexual male or derrogatory term referring to a woman
- spotted dick - (UK) humorous term for a man with venereal disease - based on the name of an after dinner treat
- spunk bucket - (UK) an extremely promiscuous woman, or low class prostitute
- spunk monkey - (UK) a gay male that enjoys performing fellatio (also spunky monkey)
- spunk junkie - (UK) a gay male that enjoys performing fellatio and ingesting semen
- squaw - (North America) offensive term used to refer to Native American females. Once used commonly in early popular media.
- steer - (North America) a castrated or otherwise emasculated male
- streetwalker - (North America) low class prostitute
- stench trench stormtrooper - (North America) gay male
- striapach - (Irish Gaelic) a promiscuous woman
- Stroller of the Bourneville boulevard - (UK) Gay male
- suceuse - (Francophone countries/territories) a female cocksucker
- sucuer - (Francophone countries/territories) a male cocksucker
- sugar in his coffee / too much sugar in his coffee - (US) effeminate and/or gay black male.
- suhu võtja - (Estonian) a male homosexual. Loosely, "cocksucker"
- Sukokov - (US) juvenile term for a Russian/Slavic homosexual - pronounced "suck cock off"
- Sushi - (North America) an unflattering term for a woman or her vagina, especially an Asian woman
- Sushi Dick - (North America) an Asian Male, because the stereotypical uncircumcised asian penis looks like a small Sushi roll
- swings both ways - (UK Commonwealth & US) a bisexual
- swisher - (UK Commonwealth & US) gay male
- switch-hitter - (North America) a bisexual
- sword fighter - (North America) a male that participates in the juvenile practice of "sword fights" where two or more males "fence" with their penises
- sword swallower - (North America) a person (female or male) that can deep throat a large penis
T
- tacos & hot dogs - (US) bisexual female, from an Anne Heche sketch on Saturday Night Live
- taco muncher - (North America) a lesbian
- tadpole - (North America) a pubescent or otherwise immature gay male
- tall drink of cock sucker - (US) attractive woman, refers to oral sex. Derived from the phrase "tall drink of water" with a similar, non-sexual meaning.
- tallywhacker toker - (North America) gay male, refers to fellatio
- tart - (UK & Eire) a promiscuous woman
- t-bird - (North America) masculine female, see tomboy
- thespian - (North America & UK) a gay actor - common pun in the gay community/theatrical community (presumed origin derives from saying the "lesbian" while adopting a heavy lisp)
- three-legged woman - (North America) a male homosexual; an effeminate homosexual who takes the female role in a homosexual act
- thread-chaser - (US) Homosexual Woodworker or carpenter
- Thriller - (North America) a high profile, stylish and/or wealthy paedophile
- tibo - (Philippines) a masculine female, variation of tomboy
- Tinkerbell - (North America) a gay male - also the name of a famous fairy from Peter Pan
- Tinky Winky - (UK Commonwealth & US) an effeminate or gay male, after the reputedly purple gay moppet from the children's TV program Teletubbies - note the similarity of the name to "twinkie"
- toad in the hole - (UK) humorous term for a woman with genital warts - based on the term for bangers (sausages) in Yorkshire pudding
- Todger Dodger - (Scotland) a lesbian, because she "dodges" (avoids) the "todger" (penis)
- tomboy - (North America) masculine female
- Tongue Fu - (US) term for lesbian cunnilingus or a lesbian (rhymes with Kung Fu)
- top - (UK Commonwealth & US) dominant gay partner
- tortillera - (Spain) lesbian
- tosser - (UK Commonwealth) a male who masturbates frequently - see "wanker"
- tourist - (UK) a heterosexual who visits gay bars to "watch the natives" and "experience the culture" without integrating themselves into it (unlike a Dyke Tyke); a bisexual, typically in a heterosexual relationship, who frequents gay bars for the purpose of procuring one-off gay sex (both terms are used almost exclusively by the gay community)
- tradesman - (UK) a gay male, because by custom a "tradesman" comes in the back door
- tramp - (North America & Eire) promiscuous woman, woman who does not conform to society's behavioral, sexual, and clothing norms
- tranny - (UK Commonwealth & US) a transgender or transsexual person
- Tranny-Saurus-Rex - (US) an exceptionally large masculine transsexual
- trawler / tunaboat - (North America) woman with unpleasant vaginal odor
- troia - (Italy) promiscuous woman, after Helen of Troy
- Tunte - (German) a pejorative word for a gay male, particularly the flamboyant drag queen type.
- tuppence licker - (UK) lesbian, refers to cunnilingus
- turd burglar - (UK & North America) gay male, refers to anal sex
- turd surfer - (AUS) gay male
- Turk - (UK Commonwealth & US) gay male, refers to practice of sodomy thought by some to be common among Turkish men - as suggested by the film Midnight Express
- Tutti Frutti - (UK Commonwealth & US) a gay or bisexual male - from the song by Little Richard
- twink / twinkie - (North America) pretty young gay male, barely of legal age, slight of build, and usually hairless (possibly derived from the pastry "twinkie" because a twink is also a cream filled treat)
- Twinkletoes - (North America) a gay man that loves to dance
- Twisted Sister - (North America) a very unattractive or manly transvestite or transexual, from the Dee Snider character from the 80's rock band of the same name
U
- uke - (Japan) a gay male who takes during intercourse (originally just a Japanese term, now marginally used in US)
- underwear model - (North America) euphemism for gay male (apologies to Markie Mark)
- Uncle Fester - (UK) from the Addams Family character - shortened form of "Uncle Fester the Child Molester"
- Uncle Fucker - (North America) an unapologetic pervert - based on usage by Canadian performers "Terrance and Phillip" from South Park
- uphill gardener - (UK) gay male, refers to anal sex
V
- vag' - (North America) a term of objectification for a female, contraction of vagina pronounced "vaj"
- vagitarian - (US) lesbian. Pun on "vegetarian".
- vaiba sööja - (Estonian) a pejorative term for a lesbian. Akin to "rug muncher".
- vamp - (early 20th century US & UK) a seductive malevolent woman (derived from "vampire", for example Theda Bara in the film The Vamp
- Versatile - (North America) a gay male that enjoys both receiving and giving anal sex.
- vicio alemán - (early 20th century Spain and Latin America) - homosexuality, literally "the German vice" , no longer in common use.
- vitu imeja - (Estonian) literally, "cunt sucker". Often used to insult to lesbians.
W
- wanker - (UK Commonwealth) a male who masturbates frequently; general term of abuse, only considered marginally vulgar.
- Warmbruder - (German) a gay male. Literally, "warm brother". German warm is yet anotner term for "gay".
- weak sister - (North America) effeminate male
- Weapons of Ass Destruction - (North America) gay males, especially well hung ones
- West Hollywood - (US West Coast) an esoteric reference to homosexuality, after an area of Los Angeles stereotypically popular with gay men
- whore - (UK Commonwealth & US) literally sex worker; promiscuous woman; woman who does not conform to society's behavioural, sexual, and clothing norms
- whussy poofer - (UK) lesbian
- wife beater - (US) Hetero - abusive husband / Homo - abusive dominant partner; also (UK) any bland imported lager, especially Stella Artois
- wimp - (North America) effeminate male
- wooly woofter - (UK Commonwealth) variant of poofter
- woman - (UK Commonwealth & US) effeminate male, as in "don't be a woman"; or a gay male who has the "feminine" role in a relationship
- woman on the other bus - (North America) lesbian
- woofta - (UK Commonwealth) variant of poofter
- woofter - (UK Commonwealth) variant of poofter
- wuss/wussy/wussie - (US) weak, effeminate; wussy is a blend of wimp and pussy
X
- Xena & Gabrielle - (North America) lesbians/lesbian couple, based on the perception that the main characters from the TV program Xena: Warrior Princess were lesbians
Y
- yummy mummy - (Australia) a particularly attractive middle aged woman, see milf
Z
- zoophile - (International) someone who practices bestiality
- zulu - (Australian) a well hung man, refers to the stereotypical size of black penises.
External links
- Some Labels to Choose From
- Thesaurus Entry for homosexual
- Words that Describe Lesbian, Gay & Bisexual People
- "Alphabet Soup" Common LGBT Terms & Definitions
- Annotated Links to LGBT/Queer Studies Resources
- Studies on Gay & Lesbian Language: A Partial Bibliography Compiled by: Gregory Ward, Department of Linguistics, Northwestern University



